Love

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Sun Aug 17, 2003 3:30 am

I know this isnt a love hotline, but I was wondering, what happends if you are in love with a girl, and she is in love with you, or was in love with you but she cant handle love, and goes for something eltse that makes her cry, and goes for negative things like drinking and having short relationships with other guys, and is left crying and sad. But then a couple of months later want's someone eltse? What happends if you know this girl is your soulmate but, you just have to wait until that day to find out, if you are ment to be together? What do I have to do so Allah can let us be together, because she is surrounded by all these demons. Like alcohal and boys, and right now she doesnt know what shes doing, is there any thing in the world I can doo too make her change, and take destiney in my own hands, and let me and her be together??cuz its been 5 years and ive been in love with her..and i turn to religion for the answers for these questions...what do I doo?? IF I Love her? yes..please answer...this isnt a love line i know...i just need some asnwers...anything in the quran? about love or destiney..or your own adcice..plz help...thnx

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Tue Aug 19, 2003 10:26 am

wow - you poor thing!
i do know that you should be praying for this girl. i also know that you can't make her change, she has to want to change.
why is she doing all this crazy stuff? ie: drinking and being with different guys? there's a reason for all of this. sounds like she wants to fit in, wants to feel wanted - she probably has low self esteem. you're right, she's surrounded by so many demons.
i really believe that if you truly feel in your heart that you two are meant to be together, then pray. there is so much power in prayer. tell God whats on your heart, ask him for the answer. but most of all ask him whether it is his will that you two be together. because if its not his will, it just means he has something better in store for you. i know love can be hard/hurtful. but if you two are meant to be together, you will. and if not, then God has something much more amazing (even though that may be hard for you to believe right now) in store for you.
take care!

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Sun Aug 24, 2003 10:07 am

Thanks for the advice, thats what all my other friends say too, and i guess she kinda is looking for attention, but shes not trying to fit in or anything because wherever she goes she has friends, and guys after her, and Im afraid that somthing will happen to her, because shes so beautifull every single guy wants to be with her, or touch her, and I dont want that..and ahh everythings messed up....we havnt even talked or seen each other for like a month, but then again we only see each other 5 days in a year usually..but oh well...that okai.......wut can i doo..except pray.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Mon Aug 25, 2003 9:34 am

it's true what they say.......love is blind. if you are meant to be together, you will be. what bugs me is that you seem like a real nice guy. do you really want to be with someone who doesn't seem to care about you or have any respect for herself? how old are you? have you guys ever dated? does she know how you feel about her? try telling her how you feel and see what kind of response you get. that would be the easiest way to resolve this issue. that way you can deal with your feelings and move on.